While I started this blog to share my experiences in life, I also get so many requests from guys who are looking to become more attractive. You would think most guys would just want to know some trick to get women to like them, but the honest truth is that many, in fact most are actually looking for genuine self improvement.
So while that is a wonderful thing to hear as a woman, I also don't necessarily know what I can do to truly help them. I mean, I am a woman. I know woman stuff, so I can tell them what I think women may like about them, I am not an expert about how to make those changes. But I do know of one who I casually met at a conference. His name is Bill Preston and he runs PUA Forums.com an online community for guys looking to get better.
There are a lot of sites like his, but I find that he encourages his users to remain respectful to women. He doesn't condone weird techniques or things that may manipulate people.
So to all the guys asking me who to go to, to improve themselves, I say Bill's forum is a great place to start. If that doesn't work for you, I also have seen a ton of great content on youtube.com that can pretty much teach anyone, anything.
This video will help you get in shape:
How to dress well for men:
Search for whatever you are looking to improve, I am sure you will find something that helps.
Before you begin your search for a girlfriend, you have to take into consideration what you are looking for. Are you looking for someone who has a nice body or a delightful personality? Are you looking for a friendship or just someone to spend the night with? You have to identify the needs you have before starting a relationship with another person. Remember that wants and needs are two very different things. Below are just a few things you should look for in a potential girlfriend.
You want to find a girl who has an open mind. If she's open to new experiences it allows you to do the things you want to do and open yourself up to new experiences as well. Two open minds work to complete different likenesses and experience fun and new things that you wouldn't have had the opportunity to indulge in otherwise. Work off each other and make sure to keep your mind open as well.
You also want to find someone who is independent. She has her mind set in her own ways, she goes about her day as she wants and she doesn't let others push her around. The independent woman is good for the man who is looking for a companion that he doesn't have to change himself for. Since she is independent, she will understand that interest may vary and that not everyone enjoys every single thing the other does. It leaves an open slate and allows for bonds to be built without being forced upon either party.
A third and final thing you want to look for is a woman with a plan. If she has her sights set in her future and has it somewhat mapped out, then she belongs on your radar. There is nothing like a woman with a plan, they are self-sufficient, goal orientated and always strive to keep themselves happy and living life to the fullest. Go into the relationship process with a plan of your own. Set your sights for the future and place yourself where you can see yourself staying for many years to come. Combining these two plans will create for one heck of a positive union.
Take these brief steps into consideration before beginning your search. Look deep within yourself before you start looking at others. Once you have everything set, you're ready to search for that special someone.